I think have a good analogy of how I feel, which is a good thing and a step in the right direction. Here goes:
Imagine that for your entire life, you’ve known what the color orange is. Then one day, someone says, “Actually, this is the color orange.” And as this person says that, he holds up a bluish looking color swatch. You ask around and indeed, what you thought was orange is really this blue looking color. Now imagine that orange was/is your favorite color.
That’s how I feel…i think.
Jeff says he gay, but that’s not what I’ve known for all my life. Here is one of my best friends contradicting something I’ve thought was true all my life.